In my former life I was never tardy for the party. I
like love to party! Not in an a$$ out drunk as a skunk kind of way, just being out and about having night life experiences. Getting dressed up. Eating sushi. Drinking pink colored sugary sweet barbie juice. Listening to live music. Doing a bit of dancing. Cackling with the girls. I love it all so much I put it on my vision board.
I have been out 1 time since the birth. It was during my 4 day Thanksgiving momcation weekend. I miss it. As a way of sparking the fire, I am throwing a party of my own next month. We’ll be designing vision boards and drinking wine. I’ve never planned a party before (stepping out of my comfort zone in 2011).
I’ve also tried to make friends on meetup.com to get the energy going. I’ve “joined” many groups..parenting, crafting, “girls night out”, natural hair, and law of attraction groups. So far nothing has really come from it. It’s like being back in the dating scene. Lots of misses. I even had my first rejection. This particular group seemed perfect for me. Ladies getting together and exploring the city a la Girlfriends or SATC. Ya know what? I. Was. Denied. or stood up. I’m not sure. They asked for a picture. I thought that was strange but I obliged and nothing *tear*. Anyhoo, I’m still out there looking for the nightlife.